20 Holiday Gifts That Are on the Spicier Side
Sure, you can get your partner an espresso machine, bath set, stack of books, jewelry, candles, or fuzzy slippers for the holidays. All of those would probably be very well received. But if you want to take it up a notch this year, why not gift them with something that's a bit sexy, sultry, and—dare we say it—a little naughty? I'm talking about sexy gifts here. Sure, sex-related gifts can sometimes be seen as tacky or perhaps even offensive to some people, but let me tell you, there are some very sophisticated and chic options out there. I've highlighted some below. And you don't even have to give these to a partner. What about the friend who's been feeling themselves lately or wants to embrace their sexy side more? Or maybe you just want to treat yourself to something nice. Go for it.
This kit has mini versions of Foria's best-selling CBD products: Awaken Arousal Oil, Sex Oil, and two intimacy suppositories.
You've got everything you need here for both partner and solo play. The kit comes with Maude's ultra-thin condoms, organic lubricant, and the best-selling Vibe vibrator. You also get a travel canvas pouch to stash it all in.
Moon Juice's Sex Dust not only boosts libido, but it helps manage stress, balance hormones, and lift your mood. It's a blend of adaptogens like Shatavari, shilajit, epimedium, Schisandra, cacao, and maca.
Just a pump of this arousal serum will heighten your senses and nerve endings. It's safe to use with sex toys and latex condoms—the formula is 100% natural and free of phthalates, glycerin, parabens, gluten, and hormones. It also has a scent with notes of peppermint, ginger, and cinnamon.
Smile Makers's newest device is all about the clitoris. It's supposed to simulate oral sex. It has one sensor mode and five pulsation modes. Plus, it comes with three different mouth sizes for a comfortable fit.
For a water-based lube, try this moisturizing option from Coconu. It's made from 100% natural ingredients and is hypoallergenic and edible.
To add a little bit more fun to the bedroom, pull a card from this deck. It features over 50 different sex-position suggestions.
It's all about those angles, right? And I'm not talking about taking Insta-worthy photos. This wedge pillow is soft, firm, and supports a person in a variety of sex positions. It has a removable cover that you can easily clean after use.
This is a modern and more comfortable take on handcuffs. They're made of strong silicone.
Use this sensual moisturizer to massage and explore. It's made with cocoa butter, sweet almond oil, argan oil, apricot-kernel oil, avocado oil, and coconut oil.
This card game makes for a flirty early holiday present that you'll want to play the whole season long. It features 12 sexy games, plus a spinner, dice, and dreidel.
Unbound's plug features a slim, tapered tip and a soft silicone exterior. It's good for beginners, too.
With notes of pink pepper, gurjun balsam, California lemon, and Virginia cedarwood, this massage candle is so sensual and enticing. It's also made with jojoba and soybean oils, which will leave the skin feeling so soft.
These capsules are formulated to support women's sexual wellness by supporting energy levels, reducing stress, promoting blood flow, and boosting a healthy libido. The daily supplement contains ginseng, maca, and L-arginine.
This guidebook features 366 sex positions, so theoretically whoever you gift this with will have a use for it every day for a whole year (and then some).
Made for couples, this vibrating ring features 100% more powerful vibrations than similar products. The silicone design will comfortably fit all sizes, and it's 100% waterproof.
Use this plant-based sex serum to boost arousal and heighten senses. The water-based formula is safe to use with toys and latex condoms, and it's also pH-balanced.
This tea is infused with traditional Chinese herbs that address low libido, stress, and anxiety. Plus, it also has kidney and circulation benefits. The stimulating blend has naturally-occurring caffeine, too.
While this kit might not be the sexiest gift on the list, I consider it one of the most practical. It contains Drip Sticks, which are really genius sponges that can clean-up any excess fluids after sex. And it also comes with a makeup bag and hand towel.
Beaver Box's Date Night box includes everything you need for a spicy evening. Inside is a lip gloss, a sensual massage candle, stimulating sensual oil, a halter lace bodysuit, and a pleasure ring.
Next: The 8 Best All-Natural Lubes for People With Vaginas
Disclaimer
This article is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended to be used in the place of advice of your physician or other medical professionals. You should always consult with your doctor or healthcare provider first with any health-related questions.
Sarah is lifestyle writer and editor with over 10 years of experience covering health and wellness, interior design, food, beauty, and tech. Born and raised in Los Angeles, she attended New York University and lived in New York for 12 years before returning to L.A. in 2019. In addition to her work on THE/THIRTY and Who What Wear, she held editor roles at Apartment Therapy, Real Simple, House Beautiful, Elle Decor, and The Bump (sister site of The Knot). She has a passion for health and wellness, but she especially loves writing about mental health. Her self-care routine consists of five things: a good workout, “me” time on the regular, an intriguing book/podcast/playlist to unwind after a long day, naps, and decorating her home.
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