I'm 31 and My Mum is 57—We Both Follow These 6 Foolproof Steps for Flawless Skin

My mum and I share many things—amongst them a love for cosy knitwear, Chanel fragrances, and expensive handbags. But one thing we've never really been in sync with (until recently) is our approach to skincare.

I grew up with acne, so my skin has always been something I've been conscious of and focussed on—an interest which became a passion and eventually led me into a career in beauty. My mum, on the other hand, has had flawless skin for her whole life, never experiencing as much as a breakout or dry patch. Despite having a beauty editor for a daughter—and therefore access to a never-ending supply of brilliant skincare products, she's never really been interested in doing anything more than the necessities, cleansing and moisturising. And to be honest, she hasn't needed to.

Earlier this year however, I noticed her looking through my shelf of serums. She's never really been bothered by signs of mature skin, but has recently begun to notice a few sun spots appearing on her cheeks and some fine lines around her eyes had started to bother her. Naturally, I relished the opportunity to shop my stash and build my mum a skincare routine, incorporating everything from exfoliation and hydration to skin brightening serums—oh, and I also passed on a few makeup products, too.

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Now I by no means believe that "anti-ageing" products are a necessity—to be honest, I'm not even a fan of using that phrase. However, as someone who has lived most of their live dealing with acne and post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation, I totally understand the desire for skin to look and feel its healthiest. And actually, many of the tips and products that make breakout-prone skin also help to make older skin look flawless, too.

Six months down the line and my mum is so committed to her daily skincare routine, that her skin is looking noticeably more bright and even. Keep scrolling to discover our top tips for for flawless-looking skin—I've also put together an edit of the products that she uses and recommends.

1. Exfoliate Regularly

As we age, many of our skin's processes begin to slow down, among them desquamation—the natural shedding of dead cells from the outermost layer of skin. When dead skin cells aren't removed, skin can appear dull and flat and will often feel rough and textured.

To aid this process, it's important to exfoliate regularly, especially as we get older. Using a physical exfoliant (like a scrub) or a chemical exfoliant (such as a glycolic acid-based toner or cleanser) is an effective way to help remove dead skin in order to brighten and smooth your complexion.

Just be wary of exfoliating too frequently, as this can increase skin's sensitivity—both my mum and I prefer to use a gentle exfoliating cleanser a few times a week instead of an abrasive scrub.

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2. Use Brightening Ingredients

Vitamin C was one of the first active ingredients I introduced into my mum's skincare routine. It helps to reduce excess melanin production, which means it's helped to fade the dark spots she was noticing, and has stopped new ones from appearing.

Right now, she uses a vitamin C serum in the morning, and a retinoid in the evening. Retinoids also help to reduce excess melanin production, but are mostly known for their ability to increase collagen production (something else that declines as we age). Collagen gives skin strength and structure, so helps to reduce and prevent the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles.

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3. Keep Your Skin Hydrated

Hydration is key to healthy skin at any and every age, but as most of us will find that our skin gets drier as we get older, it's an important step in a skincare routine for mature skin. I always recommend layering hydration to ensure skin is hydrated deep within its layers, rather than just on the surface.

My mum uses a hydrating face mist to dampen her skin, a hyaluronic acid-based serum to deliver deep moisture, and then a day cream or night cream to seal it all in.

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4. Wear SPF Daily

SPF is without a doubt the most important step in any skincare routine. It's essentially the only product that can actually slow down the appearance of the key signs of skin ageing—such as loose skin, pigmentation, fine lines, and wrinkles, which are caused by UV exposure. That's right, sunscreen is more than just a product you only apply on sunny days or while you're at the beach. When I told my mum that UV impacts our skin even on grey, cloudy days and that it can penetrate glass, she was truly shocked.

Like me, she's now a dedicated SPF 50 wearer on a daily basis and I truly think this has been the most beneficial step in terms of helping to fade and prevent sun spots.

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5. Opt for Light Coverage Base Makeup

When it comes to wearing g makeup, the biggest mistake I notice people with mature skin doing is reaching for thick, cakey, high coverage foundations. While these may provide the coverage to conceal redness and pigmentation, their thick textures will settle into line and wrinkles, and will only serve to exaggerate their appearance.

To make older skin look flawless with makeup, choose light coverage foundations, skin tints, and tinted moisturisers, which will help to even out your skin tone without drawing attention to signs of skin ageing.

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6. Use Cream Formulas

Likewise, powder formulas will also sit in lines and wrinkles and make them seem deeper and more noticeable. When wearing blusher or bronzer, opt for cream or liquid formulas instead of loose and pressed powders. These will also serve to give your skin a glowy, radiant appearance, so it will appear bright and healthy, too.

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Freelance Beauty Editor

Grace Day is a beauty editor and content creator. She has over 10 years of beauty-industry experience, spanning editorial, retail, and e-commerce, which gives her a unique understanding into how people shop for their beauty routines.While studying for a history degree (specialising in the history of beauty) and working as a beauty adviser in department stores, Grace started writing her own beauty blog in order to share the products she discovered while dealing with acne. After graduating, she moved to Beauty Bay as beauty editor and content manager. Grace is currently a beauty contributor to Who What Wear. She has also written for Hypebae and PopSugar and works as a brand consultant and copywriter.