"Frazzled English Woman" Is My Favorite Aesthetic—These Home and Beauty Items Fit the Bill

After watching The Holiday roughly 1000 times, I've noticed quite a few details, including how cozy the blankets look in Iris's linen closet. We get a peek when Jude Law's character, Graham, shows up on the cottage doorstep and is introduced to a shocked Amanda Woods, played by Cameron Diaz.

Then, there's the classic scene in Bridget Jones's Diary when she holds a pint of ice cream while wrapped in a fluffy duvet. I'm following their lead with this silky-soft faux-fur throw blanket. It's cozy, luxe, and practical.

I firmly believe Iris Simpkins would reach for a classic English perfume, like Jo Malone's Peony & Blush Suede Cologne—a sweet, floral, and traditionally feminine scent. In true "frazzled English woman" spirit, I'll spritz this before throwing a thick scarf over my shoulders and heading out the door.

This aesthetic isn't about polished, high-shine hair. No, it's about tousled, washday hair that has been disguised with dry shampoo. I'll be using one of my favorite formulas, which is Living Proof's Perfect Hair Day Dry Shampoo. It's lightweight, effective, and doesn't leave my hair feeling overly gritty like some other formulas.

Remember the "cold girl" makeup trend from last winter? Take that, make it look natural and effortless, and you have the perfect disheveled look. Obviously, blush is a big component. This easy-to-apply and even-easier-to-blend cream blush is my pick.

The scene in The Holiday where Amanda Woods takes a bath in Iris's large, old-school bathtub is one of my favorites. For my post-bath attire, I'm counting on Brooklinen's Super-Plush Robe. It's made from combed, long-staple Turkish cotton, so it's delightfully warm and cozy.

Speaking of baths, I think these skin-nourishing, solid bath oils would make for the best self-care moment for Iris and Bridget post-heartbreak. They're made from rich, soothing ingredients like cocoa butter and baobab oil to moisturize and soften the skin. Simply drop them into a warm bath to melt or glide them directly onto your wet skin in the shower.

The Rosehill Cottage fireplace lives in my head rent-free. Unfortunately, I don't have a massive, Nancy Meyers–approved fireplace to wash my home with light and warmth (sigh). I do, however, have this Maison Margiela candle, which gives me a similar, cozy feel thanks to a warm, inviting, and slightly smoky scent.

What's more effortless than throwing on face oil to boost your glow? This one is packed with rose-hip fruit and seed oil, so it's rich in omegas and antioxidants. Plus, that deep-orange tint gives my skin an instant, natural-looking, and lit-from-within radiance. It's a fall skincare staple.

One of the most important elements of this look is tousled hair. That's why I'm setting my heat tools aside and enhancing my hair's natural texture with Oribe's Dry Texturizing Spray. My goal is to look effortless and windswept—like I'm walking home in the brisk London wind.

A classic claw clip is the frazzled English woman's most important accessory. Lucky for me, these large, nonslip claw clips are only $6 on Amazon. I'll toss my tousled hair up into one of these, wrap a thick scarf around my neck, and head out into the crisp, fall breeze.

A sleeping mask is necessary for beauty sleep. This elevated option is made from pure silk and has a cute, cottagecore design.

Another skincare product that feels very frazzled English woman is this iconic body butter that's elevated yet practical and packed full of soothing and moisturizing ingredients. I'm keeping a big tub of this on hand for fall and winter.

While the word frazzled denotes a certain level of messiness, the key to nailing this aesthetic is maintaining a certain level of coziness and practicality, too. That's why I think an elevated laundry detergent fits the bill. It's the ultimate clean-laundry scent, with notes of lily of the valley, jasmine, sweet musk, sandalwood, and citrus.

I can't tell you why, but I strongly believe Bridget Jones would keep an old jar of the iconic Laneige Lip Sleeping Mask by her bedside. I also strongly believe she would lose the little spatula and use her fingers to slather it on.

You can't tell me that Iris wouldn't pick up this candle from the village shop on a brisk October day. Notes of hot cider, cinnamon, cloves, apple, and nutmeg make it a true fall gem. I'll be burning it until further notice to give my home an autumnal, Rosehill Cottage vibe.